Showing posts with label Self. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Self. Show all posts

Wednesday, January 29, 2014

A Defender of Loners and Misfits

“A mile above Oz, the Witch balanced on the wind’s forward edge, as if she were a green fleck of the land itself, flung up and sent wheeling away by the turbulent air. White and purple summer thunderheads mounded around her. Below, the Yellow Brick Road looped back on itself, like a relaxed noose. Though winter storms and the crowbars of agitators had torn up the road, still it led, relentlessly, to the Emerald City. The Witch could see the companions trudging alone, maneuvering around the buckled sections, skirting trenches, skipping when the way was clear. They seemed oblivious of their fate. But it was not up to the Witch to enlighten them.
            She used the broom as a sort of balustrade, stepping down from the sky like one of her flying monkeys. She finished up on the topmost bough of a black willow tree. Beneath, hidden by the fronds, her prey had paused to take their rest. The Witch tucked her broom under her arm. Crablike and quiet, she scuttled down a little at a time, until she was a mere twenty feet above them. Wind moved the dangling tendrils of the tree. The Witch stared and listened.”

From, Wicked: The Life and Times of the Wicked Witch of the West, by Gregory Maguire


Maguire’s brilliant imagining of the life of Elphaba, the Wicked Witch of the West, before the story of The Wonderful Wizard of Oz and Dorothy is told, has become itself a classic novel and phenomenal musical.

This is a book for adults. Its themes and language are for those who welcome imagination and are open to reading something completely different about a subject as familiar and prized as Dorothy and the Wizard of Oz.

There are many familiar characters in Maguire’s novel but the one who hoists the story into literary history is Elphaba. Green skinned, socially awkward, misunderstood, and mistreated, Elphaba develops a tough exterior and learns to fight for herself. She is a heroine of extraordinary gifts. She longs for tolerance. She champions the rights of animals. She defends loners and misfits, which she knows all too well about. 

This novel has been welcomed by enthusiastic fans of all ages and backgrounds since it was first published in 1995. But what we clearly have here is a book for older girls and young women in the throes of heartbreaking issues: body image, self loathing, defeating inner voices, fears of enormous power, and the urge to simply belong and be accepted without cruel and demoralizing demands from others.

Elphaba rises above these defeating emotions and lives a life, though troubled and attacked, with intrepid courage and a relentless pushing of herself to overcome.

“I don’t cause commotions,” says Elphaba, “I am one.”

This book is right at the top with all of my favorites.

Tuesday, January 21, 2014

Who is Writing Your as Yet Uncompleted Biography?

“Something wakes you at three in the morning—a forgotten face reappears in a dream, a familiar apprehension stirs slumber, some ache agitates the soul. Or, driving on the expressway, hurrying home, a moment long ago leaks through psyche’s floorboard into consciousness, and you wonder why it came to the surface just now, in this quiet different place. You see your child, or grandchild, and recall a moment like that, and wonder where it all got lost, and how it all led to this place you are now obliged to call your life. You wonder how you became the person you think you are. How is it that you married the person you married? How is that familiar doubts, self-sabotaging behaviors, predictable outcomes still govern your choices? Who is writing your as yet uncompleted biography—you, someone else, or unnamed sinister agencies? Just how is it that you got to this place, so different from the beginning of the journey, and how do you get back to where you lost your track amid the blizzard of necessary choices?”

From What Matters Most: Living a More Considered Life, by James Hollis, PhD


Spirituality & Practice reviewers, Frederick and Mary Ann Brussat, have called this “a thorough book,” and say it is filled with “insights on learning to tolerate ambiguity, feeding the soul, respecting the power of Eros, stepping into largeness, risking growth over security,” and much more.

Hollis is a Jungian Analyst, professor, and much published author. I love his writing style. His brilliance sometimes gets in the way of his very useful counsel. But he is still one of my favorite writers on how to confront our sometimes phony lives and learn to be ourselves with fierce courage, honesty, delight and meaning.


If you are struggling with any secret personal issues this book will knock you off your feet and then help lift you back up into possible healthy solutions.